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 Hi all Thought id share might be encouraging and uplifting to those us able to retunr wokr but may need career change,additional qualifications etc. Right well alot u know or may not Im fully qualifed Massage therapist and stopped work 2006 due to ill health revenge of the RA monster and more recently the introduction of the unwelcome Lupus guest. well ive tried numerous times to re start my self employment with onyl failure as i get it chronic fatigue,numbness,pain. so i made the BIGGY decision last Month thats enoughs enough and time to look at fresh horizons relating to Therapy but not as phsyical. Now as ive not done any learning in some time,i decided why not start with the Basics. Maths,English. now needs be carnt get out alot so ive enrolled with Learn direct. done my initial assesment quite suprised me self level 3 passed . so when return from hols expect to be doing my 3 hour diagnositic test then speak with tutor re what level im to start at, aiming to progress to qualification and then onto more detialed pc skills.I shall be asking them for help re adaptions for Pc on my return. hence then into employment hoping from home again as much more suited to my health needs. as no learning improve skills section ive put this here. as it will lead to employment.but also improved self confidence. see ive always done caring,cleaning,therapy massage,and all those now unsuitable for my health stops me fulfilling all job requirements despite some help. not sure of direction as yet. but its a start. feel free say what u learning u doing and why and any help youhave gained would be great. Inky07 cuddly cats make my world seem so much more fun
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I've been mulling over doing "something" for a while, Mel, but just don't seem to have the motivation. On the other hand, I've always wanted to finish my legal execs exams which I started yonks ago, but I don't know whether at 66 I would be able to do it!
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Hi Jean Have you,of course u can do it anyone is encouarged to learn these days doesnt matter what age you are.id say go for it! lv inky07 cuddly cats make my world seem so much more fun
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...if its something u really want jean u should go for it (.....& i think thats what u would say to others too!) xx
I've always wantedto get a degree and i'm slowly aiming towards one with courses via Open University, i have chosen to do the BA Open option, not sure yet whether it will be arts or science but its really good as u can decide as u go along.... i alwys thought i leaned more towards the arts but im now onto my 2nd science based course, id love to do one based on rheumatoid arthritis but i dont think there is one ...yet... if u have a dream, don't dream it ~ do it!
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That,s interesting Mel, I;d be very interested in how it turns out. Didn't you know Jean that age isn't supposed to count so If you want to do it, Go for it or you could teach pole dancing. Glenys.
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Thanks yes i aiming for open university after upggrading me basic skills had look today. they seen quite flexible and offer lot help re disabilty wise. seen courses in biology and health so maybe one of those in future but for now skills and work first. even if leads part time work so hubby can reduce his hours with his conditon. i feel if i can post ona forum then i can do a course. keep ones mind active. inky07 cuddly cats make my world seem so much more fun
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Hi there, I really think thats a great idea to try something new and well done you to go back and getting retrained Mel I have just started a design course and it is very tiring but I enjoy the interaction with other people. I found having somewhere to go and having something else to focus keeps me going. First I did a short course ad the local Adult education college just as a taster, and i had such fun and met some lovely people too. You will probably find Jean that if you decide to do something there will be a mix of all ages. I was listening to a radio programme as its the 40th anniversary of the Open University and the oldest person getting a degree was 92 and there were quite a few in their 70s and 80s so jean youll be a youngster by comparsion.
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Ah..but Glenys has REALLY given me the best idea of all. Thank you Glenys! I shall open a Pole Dancing Scool, exclusively for forum members - how about that then?! And, of course, your lessons will always be free, Glenys!
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Hi all, ha ve been thinking about this sort of thing, as if I have to give up the childminding due to it being too much, what else could I do to fill the time? Have always wanted to do sociology, but not sure how to go about it. All my qualification are regarding childcare NVQ3, Special needs (PMLD/SLD/ASD) which I enjoyed doing. I wokred as a nursery nurse for a while, and then with the special needs school, trained in complex medical needs. Anyway, it wont be to get back into work, as I am now 56 so too oldfor emplyment!! BARBARA
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Thanks Jean, put my name down Let me know when coz I need to order my G sting. x
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Hey Barbie girl, Could try something that could give you an interest or you could study sociolgy as you have an interest in it. dont have to justifiy it by studying something work related. Hey Jeanb I will look out for your pole dancing adverts...... I be looking for a discount  Though probably need the st johns ambulance standing by in case I do myself an injury
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Hi lovely ladies and thank you Mel for your post.
Jean my lovely you are never too old, and Barbie too old for employment no such thing and go for it, I loved studying sociology..
I didn't have an O'level/GCSE or A level to my name and thought I was thick as two blanks at school. Back in the 60 & 70's no one had heard of dyslexia so I was sent to remedial classes to make teddy bears. It wasn't until I lived in Germany and retook my school leaving certificate in German with teachers ignoring my spelling that I knew I wasn't that slow on the uptake, and later a test for dyslexia.
At 30 I took my A levels, by 35 my BSc (psychology and women's studies, 38 MSc (social policy), and in my 50th year I will have obtained another MSc in child and adult mental health. Thank god for computers and spell checks!!!!
Love,
Barbara XXXXX
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Brilliant Barbara and well done, that realy is a big achivement.Something like that is a big confidence builder. Can you remember what it was that changed you and got you started. I keep telling my two sisters that they could do things like that but they say they can't, they lack the confidence. Glenys.
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Hi Glenys,
Having a baby as a single parent, living on a council estate, and not wanting to be on the dole or working behind a till. I guess I had to find the confidence for my daughter sake and wanted to be a role model for her, and a provider. I think when needs must you'll give anything ago.
We no longer live on a council estate, not that there is anything wrong with them, and I have worked as a specialist mental health social worker for the past 15 years, and also train and teach student social workers.
Some colleges and local womens' groups provide confidence and self esteem building, or return to study courses, which might be more suitable for your sisters as a starting point. I know how nerve wrecking it can feel, but once they take the plunge I guarantee they'll never look back.
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Barbara XXXXXX
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jeanb wrote:Ah..but Glenys has REALLY given me the best idea of all. Thank you Glenys! I shall open a Pole Dancing Scool, exclusively for forum members - how about that then?! And, of course, your lessons will always be free, Glenys! I'll enrol Jean! Maybe we could practice in front of Stewart. I'm sure he'd be up for that! Carol
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I thought he was up for anything, Carol
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Wow, Barbara - what a FANTASTIC achievement. I'm completely in awe of you now!!
Lots of love Jeanxxxx
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I feel humbled, Ah but Jean, I can't pole dance
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It's a gift very few of us are blessed with, Barbara!!!!!
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Barbara wow you should be very proud of your-self Mary L
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